Another thing I’ve learned in 10 yrs of marriage? That during those 35 years of singleness, all those ladies who looked good and happy with all their beautiful kids surrounding them and who made me salivate to be a mom….were not totally transparent as they should have been. In 10 yrs of marriage I have learned that being a mother is so hard and although a blessing is hard on a sista. I have also learned that Mother’s Day is really Mother’s hour! Lol!!